Marriage is something most people dream about. A home, a partner who truly cares, building life together — that kind of love is beautiful. But in real life, things are not always that simple. Many couples face struggles, delays, or disappointments when it comes to getting married. Some relationships go on for years with no sign of commitment. Others break just before the wedding. And there are those who never even get to meet someone serious.
In Kenya today, this is more common than people admit. You may be dating someone for five or six years, and still they say “we’re not ready.” You ask yourself how long is too long to wait. You may see your friends getting married one by one while your relationship remains stuck in the same place.
There is also pressure from family. Everyone starts asking questions. When will you get married? What are you waiting for? It can be frustrating, especially when you know in your heart that you’re ready. But somehow, something keeps blocking you.
A woman named Ruth from Nakuru once said she dated a man for seven years. He loved her, cared for her, but never proposed. Every time she brought it up, he avoided the topic. She thought maybe she was overthinking it. But deep inside, she felt something was wrong. That’s when she decided to seek spiritual help.
Ruth is not alone. So many people are stuck in relationships with no future. Or they meet good people, but for some reason the love doesn’t last. Others try everything — dating apps, introductions, even church groups — but still nothing works. It feels like love keeps running away.
That’s why many turn to traditional spiritual help. Not because they are desperate, but because they want clarity. They want to remove whatever is standing in the way of love. Whether it’s fear, bad energy, past heartbreaks, or even spiritual blocks from past generations.
In African tradition, love and marriage are not just emotional — they are spiritual too. And when things keep going wrong in your love life, sometimes it’s not just bad luck. Sometimes you need to go deeper and fix things at the root.
A man from Kisumu said every woman he tried to settle down with left him after a few months. He thought he was the problem. But after getting help spiritually, he found peace, and the woman he loved returned and agreed to marry him. Today, they are raising a young family together.
These are not just feel-good stories. These are the real lives of people who were tired of pain and delay. People who said “enough is enough” and decided to change their story.
Marriage is not just about rings and ceremonies. It’s about finding your true partner and building a happy life. If you have been stuck, waiting for years with no progress, maybe it’s time to seek a different kind of support. A way to bring peace, commitment, and love into your life the way it was meant to be.
