I have always believed that the church is a place where truth is spoken without fear. It is where leaders should guide us gently but firmly when we are wrong.
Yet, in my own life, I saw how easily that truth can be silenced when money and influence walk into the room.
My ex-husband, who was the CEO of one of the leading banks in Kenya, carried not just authority from his position, but also pride that kept him from listening to anyone. And sadly, our church feared correcting him because of his deep pockets.
Every time I tried to seek help, the conversation would turn into polite smiles and soft words that never addressed the real problem.
It became clear to me that no one in that church wanted to risk losing his financial support. He was greeted with honor, invited to speak, and treated like a hero, even when I knew, deep in my heart, that his actions at home were breaking our marriage apart.
I felt invisible in those moments, as if my pain mattered less than the tithes he gave.
Over time, his pride grew stronger. He became too important to be told that marriage is built on humility, care, and partnership.
At home, our conversations turned into battles. He would remind me of his status and the power he held, as though that alone was reason enough for me to endure his neglect.
In public, he was charming, generous, and respected. In private, I was left to feel small and unheard. Eventually, our home was no longer a place of warmth, and the marriage ended in a quiet but painful way.
I will not lie — the end of our marriage left me broken. I had poured myself into a union that was supposed to last a lifetime.
Friends tried to comfort me, but the emptiness was too heavy. Then, someone I trusted told me about Shaba Mangube Love Spell. At first, I laughed it off, thinking it was just one of those things people talk about in whispers.
But in my loneliness, I became curious. One quiet evening, I gathered the courage to phone call Shaba Mangube Doctors on +254795613711.
I decided to try it, not out of desperation, but because I wanted to open my heart again without fear.
The journey with Shaba Mangube Love Spell was strange but gentle. It felt more like healing than magic. Slowly, my heart softened, my confidence returned, and I began to believe that love could find me again.
I wasn’t searching for someone to replace my ex-husband; I was searching for a connection that felt safe, genuine, and kind.
In time, I met someone. He is richer than my ex-husband, but that is not what makes him special to me. He is caring, attentive, and humble, despite his success.
In his presence, I feel seen and valued. He listens to my thoughts without rushing to defend himself or to prove his status. We can laugh, share our fears, and dream together without the weight of pride or competition.
Looking back, I see that my ex-husband’s wealth was never the problem; it was his pride, and the way our church enabled it by staying silent.
Today, I have learned that love thrives in humility and mutual respect. It is not afraid of correction, and it does not hide behind titles or influence.
If you are in a place where your pain is ignored because of someone’s position, I want you to know this: you deserve to be heard.
Your worth is not measured by the influence of the person standing next to you. I found peace when I walked away from silence and allowed myself to believe in love again.
